I agree with Zame a month ago about the difficulty of finding a husband I just want to add quality, not only problematic but the son was the same girl. That said in an e-mail Hizam.
” To me it all closely related to the education of parents today are too spoil the child. They are not only in accordance with the children but there is a fear of saying ‘No’. Much less fear of scolding children will run away from home.Friends” me and my wife working, living in urban areas, for her pocket money at secondary school between RM10 and RM15 a day for rest periods and meal expenses noon. ” Sometimes he forced her to give more if there are outdoor activities. That amount is expected to increase when the children grow older. ” She could not finish my breakfast any longer to cook rice and curry lunch for rushing to the office. His wife’s dinner was cooked but did not have time to buy at the stalls every day. holiday” even his wife did not have time to pack my own cooking, washing clothes and so on. Finally, breakfast, lunch, dinner as well, they buy only on kiosks. His wife cooked only if there is time, as far as fried vegetable or chicken soup. Usually they have children to buy out. ” What I want to say, the mother of the children attribute causes less good at managing themselves. Bountiful children money to buy what is popular. They simply are not taught to help your mother in the, brushing and washing clothes let alone into the kitchen to cook. ” The reason this is my friend’s wife, why cook if the extent of two or three people want to eat, the better buy. Do not waste time, not body tired and do not waste it. ” Because parents are always busy with their own case, the children take the opportunity ask what they want. If they can not sulk. So to get rid of guilt because of lack of attention to their children, they follow what the children ask, such as mobile phones and so on. When large, buy a car they claim, would also be followed if possible. ” When I have the motor and the phone, pocket money must be more for motor oil and top up . And more money in hand, many of the things the children would think. Ultimately affected by smoking and then drugs. My friend is” not dare advise what if scolding her back later. Imagine a school that morning, but arrived home at 5 pm. If primary school children sit behind the babysitter, take the form one would rather sit in her school, the reason to study with friends. ” He knew his son did not study, but instead sat in the booth to hang out with friends, go home friends or to the shopping complex. He never saw cigarette lighters in her school bag, but he received when his son deny his smoking. ” Send your child to go tuition night, after her turn down the car elsewhere. He was never angry with her once, lest his son back home at 10 pm. For fear of his escape, he persuaded his son to learn to give money, but it worsened the situation. ” As parents, we should teach children to manage money well spend the school, taught to save, teach them to help clean the house, not least his own room. Teach them wash their own clothes and rub, if I want to wear wrinkled clothes to school. ” Do not give them that extra pocket money to go home after school and even eat their own cooking eggs with soy sauce. Parents are also informed that hard up early even prepared breakfast of fried rice and bread. What’s difficult about pot use electricity to cook rice. The important thing children can go back for lunch. ” The problem this time, we have seen many mothers who do not want to go to the kitchen, like buying food ready at the booth, the reason there is no time for work, more economical , I tired washing pots and dishes. The problem is they forget that they do not teach children to save, manage households, especially female children. What will happen to them when they grow later? ” What’s wrong with dying wife to sleep with waking up cooking. Provide breakfast to wake up early or a little meal for lunch because besides being able to save, they can also teach children to cook, especially hardworking daughter. Days” is not only non-quality sons, daughters, even worse. So when our children marry, they equally do not quality. All things take for granted, do not like hard. Do not be surprised if later birth family is not enough money because they never knew and taught to save and manage the family very well
” I do not want to show them the way, but I gave instruction to my children. So I do not worry when they are grown and married. At least, well boys and girls alike, they know how to manage the family after marriage, knew of saving for their own future.“From my observation, those who do not know how to run the family, often do not complain rich man. Although the salary increase each year, they often blame the government does not regulate the price of goods until they are forced to spend more. While they do not know to manage money received per month salary.
” should we train ourselves to manage money wages , from there, then we can teach children to save, because we have already pointed example. If we own extravagant, all take the easy, lazy wife into the kitchen, her husband like enjoy, come when it will not be enough money and we will reveal spendthrift generation, “said Hizam length about problems of children this age are caused by mistakes parents to educate at home.